Lincoln Bailey Xander Beardall

too beautiful

your beautiful baby boy was a precious gift,just too beautiful for this not so beautiful earth.he will always be yous much loved son and will be with you for ever in your hearts xxx

Tina Davies September 3, 2008

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Pass this hug to all of
your friends and back
to me, see how many
you get back!

1-5 HUGS….Your on
someones mind!

5-10 HUGS…Someone
likes you!

10-15 HUGS..Someone loves
you very much

15-20 HUGS..WOW! You are
Really loved a lot

June Furness (Friend) June 22, 2008

I have just looked at the webpage you set up for Lincoln Denise - it is so so beautiful. The things people have written are truly beautiful, made all the more so because these people have obviously lost their gorgeous children too, and understand the pain involved. Hope you are ok and just to let you know that I am thinking of you x

Lisa Spencer (Friend) June 2, 2008

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Cheryl Daley (PASSERBY) April 28, 2008

LIFETIME WISH

IF I COULD HAVE A LIFETIME WISH,A DREAM THAT WOULD COME TRUE
I'D PRAY TO GOD WITH ALL MY HEART FOR YESTERDAY AND YOU
A THOUSAND WORDS CANT BRING YOU BACK I KNOW BECAUSE I'VE TRIED AND NEITHER WILL A MILLION TEARS BECAUSE I'VE CRIED AND CRIED
YOU LEFT BEHIND MY BROKEN HEART AND HAPPY MEMORIES TO
BUT ITS NOT THE MEMORIES THAT WERE WANTED,IT WAS JUST SIMPLY YOU!!!

ALL MY LOVE TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU ALL,LINCOLN IS A VERY BEAUTIFUL LITTLE BOY!
THINKING OF YOU LOVE CLARE X X X

Clare Green (someone who cares) April 22, 2008

Heaven's Door

On a hill in the distance
A young boy quietly waits
Patiently he watches
For his family at the gates
His blue eyes shine so brightly
As hope swells within
For soon he'll see his loved ones
And never part again
How joyous will be the meeting
As mother holds her child
And father kisses softly
The angel-his long lost child
Once more they'll hold each other
And tears will be no more
Forever they'll be together
As they pass through Heaven's door.

Tricia Donaldson Kierans Mum April 22, 2008

beautiful little angel lincoln

The sky is filled with Angels With puffy lacy wings The remnants of God's beauty With treasures they now bring Each one of them a Guardian That travels in the sky To watch throughout eternity Their parents from on high Smiles that come from Angels They fall like crystal rain Eases earthly burdens Lifting all life's pain Halos so astounding That glitter gold each day Following their loved ones In such a perfect way Wings in gentle breezes That fall from up above Kissing every parent With everlasting love Angels soar through heaven With everlasting light Looking down from heaven Saying their 'goodnights' Kissing all who loved them So gently on the face This life's tender mercy Each parent can embrace Wings and shiny halos Travel from on high Surrounding all their loved ones They never say good-bye.

June (Friend) April 21, 2008

SOMEONE WHO CARES

So sorry for the loss of your beautiful angel Lincoln. My daughter Nataliya was born sleeping 30 Aug 07 so I understand the pain you are going through the emotional roller coaster we are on.
Wishing you and your family gentle days ahead and I hope you find comfort on the GTS site. Love Denise xx

Denise Nataliya Mummy April 21, 2008

The Pit of Grief

The day my child died, I fell into the pit of grief. My friends watched me struggle through daily life; waiting for the person I once was to arise from the pit, not realizing 'she' is gone forever.

The pit is full of darkness, heartache and despair; it paralyzes your thoughts, movements and ability to ration. The pit leaves you forever changed, unable to surface the person you once were.

Some of my pre-grief friends gather around the top of the pit, waiting for the old me to appear before their eyes, not understanding what’s taking me so long to emerge. After all, in their eyes, I’ve been in the pit for quite sometime. Yet in my eyes, it seems as if I fell in only yesterday.

Not all of my pre-grief friends are gathered around the top of the pit. Some are helping me with the climb out of the darkness. They climb side by side with me from time to time, but mostly they climb ahead of me, waiting patiently at each plateau. Even with these friends I sometimes wonder if they are also waiting for the pre-grief me to magically appear before their eyes.

Then there are the casual acquaintances, you know the ones who say 'Hi, how are you?' when they really don't care or really want to know. These are the people who sigh in relief, that is my child who died and not theirs. You know ... the 'better them, than me' attitude.

My post-grief friends are the ones who climb with me, side by side, inch by inch, out of the pit of grief. They have no way of comparing the pit climbed to the pre-grief person I once was. You see, they started at the bottom of the pit with me. They are able to reassure me when I need reassurance, rest when I need resting, and encourage me to move forward when I don't have the strength. They have no expectations, no memories and no recollection of how I 'should' be. They want me to get better, to smile more often and find joy in life, but they also accepted the person I’ve become. The 'person' who is emerging from the pit.

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Tricia Donaldson Kierans Mum April 21, 2008

If tomorrow starts without me

If tomorrow starts without me,
And I’m not there to see.
If the sun should rise, and find your eyes,
Are filled with tears for me.

I wish so much you wouldn’t cry,
The way you did today.
While thinking of the many things, we didn’t get to say.

I know how much you loved me,
As much as I love you.
And every time you think of me, I know you’ll miss me too.

But when tomorrow starts without me,
I hope you’ll understand,
An angel came and called my name and took me by the hand.

She said my place was ready, in heaven up above,
And that I’d have to leave behind, all those I dearly love.

I had so much to live for, so much that I should do,
It seemed almost impossible, that I was leaving you.

I wish I could have said goodbye,
And kissed and seen you smile,
I wish I could have stayed with you even for a little while.

But then I had to realise, that this could never be,
Now emptiness, and memories,
Would take the place of me.

But when I walked through heavens gates,
I felt so much at home,
And then the lord looked down on me, from his golden throne.

He said, “this is for eternity, but I will promise you,
Although your life on earth has passed, here life starts anew”

“I promise no tomorrow, but today will always last,
And since each days the same up here,
There’s no longing for the past”

My loved ones, please don’t grieve for me,
Coz I am truly free,
And I will wait for you to come and share my life with me.

So when tomorrow starts without me,
Don’t think we’re far apart,
For every time you think of me,
I’m right here in your heart
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Cheryl Cannon April 21, 2008